We have been reading so much about character training as the foundation of true education, and it has enjoyably become the bulk of our homeschool focus with teaching young children (and some parental retraining)….
I loved the analogy I read on another homeschool blog speaking of character formation in an illustration of how much a mother watches diligently over a child who is sick. The encouragement was for mothers to be as diligent to the formation of habits, just as they would tend to a sick child. What a perfect picture!
“The lessons learned, the habits formed, during the years of infancy and childhood have more to do with the formation of character and the direction of the life than have all the instruction and training of years after,” CG 184.
Did you catch that? Character formation is the most important lesson we teach our children, and from babyhood is the best starting place. What a beautiful responsibility we have in this.
I’ve been collecting character training resources for a few years now, and am excited about a group we recently were able to start in our home which we call Character Club. My post today will be to share with you what’s on my bookshelf under this subject.
First, I want to talk about how grateful we are for the free resources from www.characterfirsted.com, which we use on a weekly basis. Our favorite part is the Family Connection pages, which we use to remind ourselves of what we “will do” throughout the day to display that particular character. A while back I made a poster on self-control with pictures of choices displaying self-control and also those associated with acting out in anger. I then included pictures of what those particular choices would lead to: consequences or blessings. I have yet to take this poster down, because it has been an awesome regular visual aide for us all (and many visitors have shared they enjoyed the visual themselves)! Even my 2-year-old can walk you through it when I need to bring her to evaluate her choices.
I appreciate the three volume set of Character Sketches from IBLP and their booklets, as well as coloring books. These have added a rich depth to each animal and character we have learned about. How beautiful is God’s book of nature! It’s not just for the children, but often I find I could spend several evenings reading these thick books like a good novel all on my own. I bought all three of mine used on Amazon, but paying full price online ($140 for the set) still would be worth it for the value and information you receive from each.
Lastly, my new favorite book was given to me by a friend, and I literally almost sleep with this resource. The Power of True Success can be purchased on IBLP as well, or Amazon for $35, and you will be buying many copies of this book to share with friends of all ages. It’s a priceless resource and guide for homeschooling parents! It lists all 49 character qualities taught by Christ, alongside quotes, Scriptures, applications, and evaluations for a greater understanding in how to assimilate these characters into our life.
Lastly, I’d like to share another FREE resource that I only recently discovered that has been excellent in reinforcing and expanding what I’ve been doing to build character in our home. Section one of the Ten Principles of True Education from Sonlight Educational Ministries is titled “Character Building,” and it is motivational to say the very least! It brings you through an excellent study of the Mount of Blessings and the rich/foolish builders. What character are you building in your hearts and the hearts of your children each day? You can find it on their website under Google Drive link in their Downloads: http://www.sonlighteducation.com/downloads.html.
I’d like to think of myself as a character building enthusiast! And, I hope you find some resources that can aide you in restoring Christ’s character into your homeschool. That all being said, I’d like to add one more thing. Wherever we go, we are exhibiting either the character of God who created us or that of our carnal nature. I am praying more and more it will be the first and not the latter.